(Editor's note: Mocha Uson is a performing artist who also gives advice on sex-related issues through her blogs. She used to have a monthly photo blog in Maxim Philippines.)
Dear Ms. O (Mocha)
Q: Hey Mocha, my wife and I don’t have sex anymore. How can I bring back our sexy time?
A: According to a study, women become less horny once they enter into a long-term relationship. While men are horny no matter how short or long the relationship has been. For many couples, their sexual desire started to plummet when their children came along. Other stress factors like money, bills and work can reduce libido. Lack of sex between married couples will definitely result in decreased intimacy.
There are a lot of ways to bring back the spark. Using sex toys is one great way to start having fun again in the bedroom. Vibrators and other sex toys can bring back the sense of excitement that is missing in long-term relationships. If you can just keep an open-mind, you will be surprised how sex toys can help improve your marriage. Assure your partner that using toys doesn’t mean that he/she falls short when it comes to sex. Tell him/her that you want to use the toy and explore TOGETHER. DON”T bring out the toy in the middle of sex. You will freak him/her out. You need to talk about it first.
Sex toys allow you to pleasure yourself and your partner in so many exciting ways. I have a lot of toys like G-spot vibrators, bullet and lipstick vibes.
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